Thursday, August 30, 2012

I'm looking great in my dream which means Strength and better self-confidence

29th of August 2012 and 11th of Shawwal 1433 (the islamic Calender converter)

I am in a house with many rooms, but no distinct walls, together with my husbands' relatives
I was in a big house on a mountain. There were several levels of the house and it was connected to another building that was official and had a café attached to the private house. We, my husbands relatives and I, were gathered together in a room. The room was very spacious and had big windows, but it felt too spacious. There were no walls to protect the intimacy of the family. I felt uncomfortable. I looked around in the house and I like the dinner room. But to my chagrin I found out that it didn't belong to the house, but a Café. The kitchen that was right beside it belonged to the house though.

I was on the outside trying to get in the house again. I couldn't find a place to go in from the sharp mountain side of the house. So I climbed up and around and got to the front door from the other side. There was a big plain entré, but the front door was hindered to get through by bicycles that weren't parked in the parking-spot for the bicycles. I didn't have time to get in before I met several people outside the house. They asked me about something. I realised that I was very pretty, in a blue summerdress. I felt pretty and I was. But I felt embarrassed because it was not my normal outfit. Normally I dress with veil and am all-covered up, like a Nun. One of the people was a post-man. He had a delivery for me, but when he was supposed to hand me it, he couldn't find it. I looked in his sac and found a parcel for my old ex-friend, an ex-Muslim and I was curious about what it was inside the parcel, but the post-man didn't let me have it, and I didn't tried to get it either, just get a sneak peak of it.

The friendly woman and the ex-friend not so friendly any longer

Then I saw another house or the same, but different, with a warm and friendly French-teacher. It was a garden outside and I was there. I was there to learn french, but then I realized that it was too easy, so I changed my mind. However, I was very welcomed and known by the teacher. I saw babies in the water and I also saw an old friend there. I tried to talk to this friend, but I couldn't get some privacy. One man did some espionnage on me because he didn't like what he saw and looked through the doors' small window and I tried to cover me by my arm so that he wouldn't recognize me. I wore a beautiful red dress that I really loved, but I was very ashame of having it on and nothing else. My friend refused to talk to me.

Walking together with my brother-in-law and pushing a baby-carriage with my neighbors baby in it

I dreamt that I was with my family, my husband and my children on a walk. I walked with a baby carriage and a baby, my neighbour's baby, Ghazi, together with my brother-in-law. I tried not to touch him, but finally he reached out and put his hand on mine, and I felt warm and very happy. The sad thing is that when I went back, my sister-in-law was very angry with me and she critizised me for not having said hello to her before I got out. She said that I didn't know how to behave. I felt very embarrased and hurt.


Taking on an a new identity and developing new strengths

If the house was built with bricks, gypsum, and lime, it would mean that a sin will be committed or that the dreamer has amassed a fortune through sin and will regret it in the Hereafter, owing to the fact that fire plays a major role in the manufacturing of such constructing material. The dream would have a happy ending if the dreamer destroyed thehouse before waking up. To see a house in your dream represents your own soul and self. Specific rooms in the house indicate a specific aspect of your psyche. To dream that you are inside a stranger's house indicates that there is something that you have yet to discover about yourself. It may mean that there are repressed memories, fears or emotions that you are not confronting. To see a new house in your dream indicates that you are taking on a new identity and developing new strengths. You are becoming more emotionally mature. To dream that you are in a room represents a particular aspect of yourself or a specific relationship. Dreams about various rooms often relate to hidden areas of the conscious mind and different aspects of your personality. If the room is welcoming or comfortable, then it signifies opulence and satisfaction in life. If you see a dark or confined room, then it denotes that you feel trapped or repressed in a situation.

To dream that you find or discover a new room suggests that you are developing new strengths and taking on new roles. You may be growing emotionally. Consider what you find in the discovered room as it may indicate repressed memories, fears, or rejected emotions. Alternatively, such rooms are symbolic of neglected skills or rejected potential.

To see mountains in your dream signify many major obstacles and challenges that you have to overcome. If you are on top of the mountain, then it indicates that you have achieved and realized your goals. You have recognized your full potential. Alternatively, mountains denote a higher realm of consciousness, knowledge, and spiritual truth.

I have determination and ambition

To dream that you are climbing a mountain signifies your determination and ambition.

To dream that you are in a cafeteria denotes that there may be a lot of issues "eating" you up inside. To dream that a house has no walls represents a lack of privacy. You feel that everyone is looking over your shoulder or up in your business.
To dream that you are in an empty white room indicates a fresh start. It is like a blank canvas where you want to start life anew. Alternatively, the dream means that you are trying to isolate yourself. You do not want any outside influences.

To see the front of something in your dream indicates that you expressing a desire to keep your distance. The dream may also be a pun on "fronting". Are you being someone that you are not? Are you overly concerned about how you come across to others and how they see you?

To dream that someone is in front of you implies that there is something or someone you need to face. You can not avoid the issue or this person any longer. Alternatively, the dream represents an aspect of yourself that is surfacing from the subconscious.

To dream that you are handsome refers to your confidence and self-esteem level. Alternatively, to dream about your looks points to your concerns about how others perceive you. 

I feel that my leisure pursuits and recreation hinders me, but I need to devote time to it rather than neglecting it

To see a bicycle in your dream indicates that you need to devote time to leisurely pursuits and recreation.

To see or wear a dress in your dream represents a feminine outlook or feminine perspective on a situation. You are freely expressing your femininity.

To dream that you are wearing a blue dress implies that you want to appear truthfully, loyal,devoted and wise toward others. Perhaps you are trying to look "open". Blue represents truth, wisdom, heaven, eternity, devotion, tranquility, loyalty and openness. Perhaps you are expressing a desire to get away. The presence of this color in your dream, may symbolize your spiritual guide and your optimism of the future. You have clarity of mind. Alternatively, the color blue may also be a metaphor for "being blue" and feeling sad. If you are wearing light blue in your dream, then it symbolizes your creativity. You like to pace yourself in whatever you are doing.

There is some disappointments in my life

To see a mailman in your dream symbolizes your communications with others. You need to get the word out about something. If the mailman does not have any mail for you, then it signifies disappointments in some aspect of your life.

To see a box in your dream signifies your instinctual nature and destructive impulses. Alternatively, you may be trying to preserve and protect some aspect of yourself. The box may also symbolize your limitations and restrictions.

To see a sparse, weed-infested garden suggests that you have neglected your spiritual needs. You are not on top of things.

To dream that you are studying a foreign language suggests that you are having difficulties expressing your thoughts. You are confronted with some unfamiliar problem that you do not know how to approach and resolve in your waking life. Alternatively, a teacher relates to issues with authority and seeking approval. You may be going through a situation in your waking life where you feel that you are being treated like a student or in which you feel you are being put to a test.Also pay attention to the demeanor and attitude of the teacher in your dream. If the teacher in your dream is mean, then it implies that you may be putting too much pressure on yourself to succeed.

I want to look courageous and empowered

To see or wear a dress in your dream represents a feminine outlook or feminine perspective on a situation. You are freely expressing your femininity. To dream that you are wearing a red dress implies that you want to appear with power, energy, courage and passion toward others. Perhaps you are trying to look "energetic or sexy". Red is an indication of raw energy, force, vigor, intense passion, aggression, power, courage, impulsiveness and passion. The color red has deep emotional and spiritual connotations. Consider the phrase "seeing red" to denote anger. Alternatively, the color red in your dream indicates a lack of energy. You are feeling tired or lethargic. Red is also the color of danger, violence, blood, shame, rejection, sexual impulses and urges. Perhaps you need to stop and think about your actions.

To feel shame in your dream signifies waking feelings of guilt, insecurity or low esteem that has carried over into the dream world. Perhaps you feel you have failed yourself or others.

To see your arms as the emphasis in your dream indicate your nurturance side and your ability to reach out and care for people. Alternatively, it may represent the struggles and challenges in your life. Consider the pun "arm yourself" which implies that you need to protect yourself, be more aggressive and take a firmer stance on things or the pun "up in arms" representing anger and your readiness to argue.

To dream that you are hiding suggests that you are keeping some secret or withholding some information. You may not be facing up to a situation or dealing with some issue. However, you may be getting ready to reveal something and confess before somebody finds out. In particular, to dream that you are hiding from some authority figure (police, parent, teacher...) implies feelings of guilt.

Being "naked" and ashamed of people and seeking cover without success: Will lose one’s money and become poor.Wearing a red silken garment in a dream means a sickness.

There is a lesson to be learned

To dream that you have been defriended indicates that you are feeling betrayed. To dream of an ex-friend suggests that an object or a recent incident has subconsciously reminded you of him or her. Alternatively, the ex-friend represents a lesson you learned from the falling out. You need to apply that lesson to a current issue, problem or relationship.

There are chracteristics that I have accepted and some that I haven't accepted yet.

To see a baby carriage in your dream symbolizes your desire for a family or longing for a baby. To see your brother-in-law in your dream represents characteristics in him that you find within your own self. Consider also your waking relationship with your brother-in-law. If you dream that you are arguing with your brother-in-law, then it suggests that you are refusing to acknowledge or accept certain of his qualities. To dream that you are holding hands with someone represent love, affection and your connection with that person. Your dream may also reflect anxieties about losing touch with him/her or that you are drifting apart. Having a brother in-law in a dream and particularly for someone who does not have in-laws means strength, peace and tranquillity. The hand is the person’s main helper with which he earns his livelihood and which he extends for charity. Strong and healthy hands represent the ability to give and take properly. The right hand symbolizes strong men, the left women.To see your sister-in-law in your dream represents characteristics in her that you find within your own self. Consider also your waking relationship with her. If you dream that you are arguing with your sister-in-law, then it suggests that you are refusing to acknowledge or accept certain qualities of your sister-in-law.

There is more Confidence in myself but I need to be more "aggressive" and firmer on things

There have been some changes around me. I say what I have to say now, and I have more confidence now. I know what I want, but I feel a little bit stressed about managing everything around me. I have my children to think about, my career, my future, my placy in the akhira. I can cope with everything. But I feel that I have more strength now than before and I am not afraid as I was before. I also feel that there are people that are interested in me, but I am also losing friends too.

I feel that I grow inside and that I am more confident about myself and my destiny. I am also happy about my state of mind, because I am now trying to get closer to God, to Allah by reciting more by heart, by reading Qur'an more and by signing up for islamic studies. I have good feelings about the future and also about my character and that I am able to change, with the help of Allah. My financial situation, my physical as well as my mental health are under progress biidnillah. But I also find that it is difficult to live by myself. I am always with somebody peaking over my shoulder, for example my children myand my husband. I am not by myself all the time. I need to protect yourself, be more aggressive and take a firmer stance on things. I am also welcoming something new, with more confidence and more patience. I know that I don't always continue what I have started because I have so many things I want to do at the same time, and responsibilities at the same time towards my family. But I have help from my brother-in-law and from him there is peace and tranquillity. 

By the way, I have studied french and I have also several years of practising the language. It is not so foreign any longer. I speak french every day, more or less. 

I must also be careful with how we get money, as money must be pure. 

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